Back in the day, Law & Order: SVU was one of my favorite police procedurals. I abandoned the show during that whole guest arc with Sharon Stone, and then Christopher Meloni left too and I wasn’t going to stick around for only Mariska Hargitay, even though I do love some Mariska. Mariska is synonymous with Det. Olivia Benson, but Mariska has a life away from Olivia too. She’s been happily married to a hottie with a body for 15 years. If you’ve ever watched a TV show which films in New York, you probably recognize Peter Hermann – he’s a tall drink of water and a great character actor who pops up in many TV shows. Mariska and Peter met on the set of SVU and they’ve been together ever since. People Magazine chose to highlight one of the best marriages out there, and I’m not mad about it.
In the celebrity-romance department, lasting relationships are considered especially rare — and few have defied the odds quite like Mariska Hargitay and Peter Hermann. Sitting down exclusively with PEOPLE in this week’s issue, on stands Friday, the New York City-based couple reveals the key to their 18 years together, 15 of which they’ve spent as husband and wife: the laughter that flows freely between them and their family. (The two are parents to sons August, 12, and Andrew, 7, and daughter Amaya, 8.)
“I never thought I would have this much laughter in my life,” says Hermann, 51, who has reached a new level of stardom in the TV Land hit Younger, playing dashing publishing mogul Charles. “Not just actual laughter,” he adds. “But also the way that Mariska is just the embodiment of laughter — of joy.”
“It’s not that we don’t fight,” adds Hargitay, 55, longtime star of Law & Order: SVU, where she plays the crusading Lieutenant Olivia Benson. But the actress, who also helms the Joyful Heart Foundation for abuse survivors, says seeing the absurdity in certain squabbles has proven to be crucial, as well as finding life’s silver linings.
The pair met when Hermann guest-starred on SVU in 2002 and they instantly clicked. Nearly two decades later, they are remarkably attuned to each other — when Hargitay suddenly furrows her brow, Hermann quickly says, “Bless you,” seconds before she actually sneezes — and their banter is easy and filled with good-natured ribbing. According to Hermann, laughter has and always will unite the pair.
“It’s the way we find our way back to each other,” he says. “It’s this fantastically, wonderfully ridiculous way that we can swing back and forth any number of times in any given day. But fundamentally we know we have the same destination.”
“We know where we’re headed, and it’s good,” he continues. “And we know we’ll get there together.”
I remembered that Peter and Mariska adopted their daughter Amaya, but I totally forgot about the third child, Andrew. That’s sort of cool that a great couple is so lowkey that I totally blanked on how many children they have. Anyway, sometimes it’s just nice to have a nice gossip story. I pray that this cover story isn’t some kind of tit-for-tat PR to hide some shady gossip about them. Oh God, Mariska is the one who broke up Bradley Cooper and Irina Shayk, right??! No, I jest. I think they got this cover to help Peter promote his role in Younger.
Photos courtesy of WENN.
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